Trust & safety
Every member agrees to these when they join. They exist so discretion never becomes a cover for harm.
18+ only
Adults only — 18+
FyndMe is an adults-only social and relationship discovery service. You must be 18 or older (or the legal age of majority where you live, if higher) to create an account or use any part of the platform. Accounts suspected of belonging to a minor are removed immediately.
FyndMe supports discreet discovery, companionship and mutually understood relationships between consenting adults. It is not an escort, prostitution or paid-companionship service, and pornographic content, sexual services for payment, trafficking and any sexualisation of minors are prohibited without exception. See the Member Rules and Child Safety Standards.
Strictly 18+. Every account confirms date of birth at registration.
FyndMe is an adults-only network. Accounts suspected of belonging to a minor are suspended immediately and permanently, before any review takes place.
Suggestive is fine. Explicit sexual imagery is not.
Nudity intended as pornography, sexual acts, and genital imagery are removed on sight — in public albums, private albums and messages alike.
Sex-for-money offers or solicitations are prohibited.
Sugar dating on FyndMe means companionship and lifestyle arrangements between consenting adults. Advertising, requesting or negotiating paid sexual services is not permitted and results in removal.
FyndMe has no live video, calling or broadcasting features.
There is no live video anywhere on FyndMe by design. Anyone directing you to an external cam or streaming site is almost certainly running a scam.
Connections, messages and private albums all require approval.
You cannot message a member until they accept your connection request, and private albums are only visible to people the owner has approved. Pressuring someone for photos, contact details or a meeting is harassment.
Real photos of you. No impersonation, no stolen images.
Using someone else's photos, posing as a public figure, or running a profile on behalf of another person is grounds for permanent removal.
No member of FyndMe will ever ask you for money.
Requests for gift cards, crypto, 'verification fees', travel money or emergency loans are the single most common scam pattern. Report them — do not pay.
Never screenshot, share or re-publish another member's content.
Private photos, messages and identifying details shared with you stay with you. Redistributing them is a permanent-removal offence and may be illegal.
Disagree, decline, move on. Never abuse.
Slurs, targeted harassment, threats of violence or doxxing lead to immediate suspension regardless of context.
Don't sell, recruit or push people to external sites.
Links to paid content, affiliate offers, other dating sites or 'verification' third parties are removed and repeat offenders are banned.
Every decision is recorded with a reason, and every decision can be appealed once from the appeal page.
